In a previous post, an Effective Approach to Managing Difficult Employees, we began looking at the challenges managers face when dealing with difficult employees. In this post, we review a few helpful techniques in communicating with these employees.
Every manager encounters difficult employees. One element of a manager’s role is to meet and communicate with disruptive employees in an attempt to facilitate behavior and performance improvement. Effective communication is the key to ensuring successful outcomes to such encounters. Learning a few communication techniques should foster a productive, positive attitude on part of the employee.
The Script
Before meeting with an employee, the manager should prepare a “script.” Design the opening of the dialogue such that the employee will be receptive to conversing with you. Request their assistance. Identify the issue and the possible causes, clarify their role as part of the team and define company policies concerning the matter. Engage the employee to assist with solution seeking. Remember to recap the conversation and confirm agreed upon solutions. Ensure that communication is honest, courteous and direct. Be clear about expectations and intentions and be open to feedback. Communication includes listening as well as speaking.
Assertive or Aggressive?
A manager should attempt to speak in a manner that is assertive without being aggressive. Assertive communication clearly defines your needs while maintaining a courteous and respectful attitude toward the audience. Aggressive communication adopts a posture that will usually put the “audience” on the defensive. Use phrases such as “I know how you feel”; “I have felt that way too”; “Here’s what I did…”; “It seems like…”; “If I hear you correctly, you would like…”.
Feedback
One of a manager’s responsibilities is the continuous, informal and formal evaluation of his employees’ performance. Managers would do well to provide positive feedback, motivating their employees to improve performance.
“You know Jack, you’re a natural leader, and the quality of your work is really great—when you are here, that is. If it weren’t for your attendance, I might think about giving you more responsibility.”
Negative feedback will cause people to become defensive and resentful.
“Jack, you’ve been out three days this month and this morning you’re late for the fifth time. Are you planning to set a new record? Frankly, your attendance stinks. If thing don’t change, you’re in big trouble!”
Communicate Expectations
Managers hoping for improved behavior on part of their employee must clearly define their expectations. People aren’t mind readers and may have a completely different understanding of what is expected of them from what you perceive. In defining expectations (for yourself as well as the employee) you must be specific, even detailed if necessary. Use behavioral terms. For example, “I want you to treat me with respect.” This is a subjective statement. How would a person BEHAVE if they were to treat you with respect? This is what should be defined.
“I want you to be more of a team player.” How would a team player behave? Instead, one might say “I would like you to attend all departmental meetings and provide assistance to coworkers who request help.”
Conclusion
Communication with employees, even difficult ones, can be a productive, positive experience, provided that one prepares in advance and uses effective communication techniques. Clarify matters for yourself beforehand, focus on strengths, provide positive feedback, refrain from attacking and yet be determined and clear. The resulting performance improvements will strengthen your belief that a positive, constructive and productive work environment is possible.

Disruptive employees impact the dynamics and interfere with the overall productivity of the work environment. Part of the managerial process consists of dealing with difficult employees. Supervising can be challenging at times, but careful planning and implementation of effective strategies for dealing with difficult employees can facilitate a positive, constructive and productive work environment.
Everyone suffers when there is a difficult employee in the workplace. An astute manager can recognize difficult employees, determine whether their behavior can be changed and whether or not they should be terminated.
California employment law
On January 1, 2005, AB-1825 went into affect. Also known as California’s Sexual Harassment Training law, the law begins by stating that all employers in California with 50 or more employees must comply. Employees include full time, part time, temporary, contractors, agents, and seasonal workers (CA Gov Code sec. 12940(j)(5) who work under contract for each working day in 20 consecutive weeks in the current calendar year or preceding calendar year. The law has a fairly broad and encompassing definition of “employee”. Finally, the law only applies to California based employers, though employees may be located anywhere in the world.
There is no question – employment risks in the workplace abound. In addition to increased employment litigation, the EEOC received a boost in funding and personnel to address the increase in employee claims. Despite an increased awareness and concern by employers to comply with the law, problems still exist and the EEOC is more vigilant than ever in addressing all the complaints it receives.